My new boyfriend and I have been dating for a month now... before we began our relationship I knew all about him and his ex because he is friend to my cousin but everyone that knew them say they were still together including my cousin because he is just an international student so everything he has it on her name. His car insurance and his phone plus his old house... a week before we met he was suppos to get a another house with his friend so they can be room mate... then his friend changed his mind but he had already told the landlord he was living so the landlord had goten new renters... the week we met was the week he moved out of the house, since he had no where to go so he moved into his ex house till he can get another apartment... we started dating after we met but before that he swear to me that he has nothing to do with his ex, they haven't talk in a while because it over between them... I believed him even when my cousin told me he is lying... that they always fight and make up all the times... so maybe that was one of the fight but soon they will get back together... anyways I did not pay no mind because I really liked him and his very sweet... a week through our relationship even my cousin telling me things I didn't want to believe but somehow in me I felt he is still together with her but he keeps on saying they are not then my cousin asked the ex at the party we went too and the ex told us that it waas over between them and the next day the ex called me saying if I can stop talking to him because when we asked her at the party she tough me and him have nothing going on... thats why she said that... so I called him and all he said was do not mind her just ignore her... then week 2 I am begin to her things outside, that he is living at her house, bringing other women there while she's at work... and all this time they were together... ofcourse I beged him to tell me the truth but again he denied that he is not living with her, he has been with his friend.. but his things are at her house but people see them together all the times... then in anger I picked up the phone and called the ex to find out why she told me it was over between them at the party... then she said the day she called me was the day they made up that he apologized to her... and if I do not believe he... she can pass himm the phone that his right there with her... to my surprised he was there with her and refused to talk to me... right away I hanged up and called his phone and all he can he didn't know that was me but he can explain... I was very upset.. even for the fact he was there with her he keeps on deniying they are together.. he wasn't there for but to see a friend... then I asked him now you know what she just told me so what are you going to do all he said was he loves me and he do not care about what she is saying to people about them... cuus to him they were so he can proe to me they not together but he is scare to tell her that because he wouldn't have a place to live or put his stuff... so just let the ex be... but I should know that it me he loves and wants... I told him if he doesn't prove to me in front of her that they are over then we are done... he asked me to give him time to find a house first then he will prove to me that he really wants me... but I told him no so broke up with him but he still wants me... he is trying to talk to me and now today was the first day I replied to him... we talk but still I want him to tell me the real thruth but he is not doing it everything I know it from my cousin because he talks to her... now I miss him a lot but I don'tt know where to start from because now he is thinking everything is fine again between us when I am not sure if he is just using me or he really cares about me... he has beeen looking for a house everyday but still using the ex income and her income is to small to get him a house now I don't know what to do because I only work private and I don't file for taxes what am I suppos to do right now knowing he lives at her house, I don't know if they have sex, or still together the all thing is very confusing to me... I just feel like he is still with her and waiting till he gets a house then break uup with her... I don't know please advice me on what to do because I really like him please