I finger myself all the time

Depends on what you mean by all the time. In another post you say you have an 11 yr old daughter, so that would indicate you are at least in your late 20s. Doing this several times a week is not abnormal, But several times a day, every day may be a bit much.

First, we have to know your age before we can answer.

Second, your post is very vague. What are you doing? What makes you think you're doing it wrong, or is it just the act itself that you think is wrong?

Since in another thread she has an 11 year old daughter (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/weight-loss/how-can-get-11-yr-old-alost-12-yr-old-daughter-loose-weight-584593.html), I will take that she is probably over 18.

However, I am not certain I understand what the question is.

Meme, it would help if you explained a bit more about what advice you need.

Are you asking about masturbating or just touching yourself?

Are you asking if it is wrong to masturbate?

What do you mean by 'all the time'? Is it interfering with other parts of your life?

Are you experiencing any other problems that might be related to how you touch yourself?

Is it causing problems between you and your husband?

Good questions Cat, and good point. If she has an 11 year old child she has to be over 18. :)

Meme, please come back and give us more info so that we can help.

But I find it hard to believe that someone in their late 20's would word and question self pleasure in the way they did

Something is "off" here - strangely worded question. I'm not sure "child" isn't posting claiming to be "mother."

It's only a problem if they throw you off the bus and tell you not to come back OR the minister stops the service and asks you to leave.

Are you sure you're an adult?