If my wife left me , and she is now getting me for every penny, and I cannot pay her 18000 attorneys fees what can I do. I want some custody of our daughter . We have a son who lives with me, soon we may not have a place to live.

Then have your attorney fight so you don't pay her attorney. Or reach some agreement out of court and not have to pay all the costs.

Is there an Order that you pay her legal fees?