My ex took my two children out of state without even letting me say goodbye, now she doesn't answer my calls what can I do?? I really miss them we have a court date this coming up month to go over custody, parenting time.. child support etc... please any advice..

Since there is pending litigation here, she may be considered in violation. I would go to court immediately and file a motion for emergency custody to compel her to return the kids to the state. If she is hiding the kids from you, she may be considered guilty of parental kidnapping and you may be able to get a warrant issued for her arrest.

If you have a lawyer, get him off the stick to do something now. If Not, I would advise getting a lawyer immediately.

P.S. Any question on law needs to include your general local as laws vary by area.