Both threads merged into one


I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago and since then I can't stop thinking about him and it's making me go crazy. I can't sleep at night properly and I miss him so much. I had had a massive crush on him for like 1 and a half before which he didn't know about and when he asked me out it was like a dream come true. He was moving at the end of the school year but we broke up about 3 weeks before and it destroyed my last couple of weeks of school :( even though I feel like I should hate him for breaking up with me, I just can't and I think I still love him. It's just tearing me apart and I feel like my heart I still broken into millions of pieces. DESPERATE HELP NEEDED! :(

I want sex really badly...

I just can't stop thinking about sex and making out and just anything sexual and it's making me feel crazy. I really want a boyfriend right now so I can do all these things with me but that's not an option... What the ****s wrong with me and what the **** should I do?

How old are you JamStar? Are you accustomed to having regular sex?

You sound like almost any 16 year old

I think we need to find out just how old Jamstar is before discussing sex with her.

Her other thread mentions the 'end of the school year.' (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/cant-stop-thinking-about-ex-boyfriend-584142.html)

I am concerned that Fr_Chuck may be close to being right about her age.

I think all you really want is to be considered an adult, a mature person who can do what she wants any time she wants. You probably don't want to be told when to go to bed either, do you.

Uh- jamstar"96"? She was probably born in 96. So she is probably 14 or 15 depending on the birth month. Sounds like a bad case of puberty to me.

agreed with slu2013
puberty=hormones=sex drive
its not good to go looking for a boyfriend JUST to do sexual stuff. You'll find you just use him and then you'll hurt him.

Also, if you just broke up with someone, that could be part of it. When I broke up with my boyfriend I couldn't stop thinking about similar things. I regretted not doing them with my ex, so that may form part of it.

Just ride it out, whatever the cause, it won't last long. If you act on your desires you will only end up regretting it...