Hi -

My soon to be wife and I have decided to do it the good 'ole feminist way. We want to have the same name, but she doesn't want to give up her's and I'm not giving up mine, so we've decided to join them.

The only thing we haven't decided is the order in which the names should be. Her name is Walker, mine is Randle.

Should our name be Walker-Randle or Randle-Walker?
Take into account pronunciation an also the way it looks and so forth. I would appreciate if you also said why you think so.

Thanks :-)

It is "usually" the woman's name followed by the man's. I like R-W better but that's just me.