Sheri3
Jun 25, 2011, 06:55 AM
I've been seeing this man since March 2011, we met in my country and things went well. In April (for my birthday) I went to visit him in his country for 3 weeks and it was great! A month later (June) he is here visiting again and we've been fighting a lot.He is 42 and I 40. Granted we didn't have a lot of time getting to know each other, we've been doing so along the way as we are both adults and know what we want.
Things really have been moving fast for us but I love him and told him so. He said he cares for me but doesn't love me. The thing is, we were planning a future together. He seems to be very excited about having children, building a family etc with me. He said I have all the qualities he looked for in a wife.
Now I want to call it off. I think most of our fights stem from my inability to be with someone who doesn't love me but is planning a future with me. Do you think I'm making the right decision? He also seems distracted at times during this visit. He leaves in a few hours and last night (his last night here), he went to hang out with a female friend he also met in my country. I don't want to waste time going into all the details but this is the best way I can summarize the important details. One moment he's there for me. The next I think I'm chatting with a wall. Thank you so much for your advise and time spent answering this question.
Things really have been moving fast for us but I love him and told him so. He said he cares for me but doesn't love me. The thing is, we were planning a future together. He seems to be very excited about having children, building a family etc with me. He said I have all the qualities he looked for in a wife.
Now I want to call it off. I think most of our fights stem from my inability to be with someone who doesn't love me but is planning a future with me. Do you think I'm making the right decision? He also seems distracted at times during this visit. He leaves in a few hours and last night (his last night here), he went to hang out with a female friend he also met in my country. I don't want to waste time going into all the details but this is the best way I can summarize the important details. One moment he's there for me. The next I think I'm chatting with a wall. Thank you so much for your advise and time spent answering this question.