I have been over wight all my life and started my period at 9 came back again when I was 12 a virtually absent until I was 14 or 15 and was diagnosed with pcos well I was on birth contol and metformin until I got married in 08 and then stopped it I had normal periods for about 3 months then stopped for a long time then recently I have been bleeding for about 12 months stright I'm a nemic and I have no insurance and my doctors at the clinic won't do nothing they put me on birth control and on iron and they want to do an d and c asap I don't know what direction there going in me and my husband has been trying to conceive for about three years where should I go from here I am consitantly losing weight 2 to 8 lbs a week and started about three months ago and feel great should I just get back on metformin and birthcontrol until I loose weight and see if it my periods come back normal or what or will I always habve to be on this stinking stuff what should I do I'm really depressed and don't trust my doctor I'm so scared he has me taking 3 pills a day for three days then two for two days then 1 until I finish the pack is this normal my period has stopped for 2 days so now what