Baabyguuurl56
Jun 13, 2011, 03:05 PM
Hey :) I'm a 13 yr old girl! I'm new to this site but here goes my story!
Kay well I don't like that I'm shy around basically everyone! Even my closest friends! Like I don't know why I'm like that! I don't really talk I'm mostly the listener in the group! Im shy around both the opposite and same sex! Idk how to approach girls cause some girls are kind of mean and snobby and think everything is about them. Plus I don't want to take a chance to try and meet that person cause Im afraid of them being rude to me or using me. I'm shy to approach guys cause guys are mean to me and say stuff about me behind my back but it seems like they can have respect for everyone else except me!
I think the reason that I'm shy is because I'm so concerned about what people think about me and because I have low self asteem and don't have confidence in myself! Like I always put myself down and compare myself to other girls and stuff like that! Also Im paranoid like I always think someone is talking about me when their not! Plus I always think negative but like I act negative at home not at schoo! Idk why I'm like that! That just me! So I was wondering how I can stop being so paranoid, shy and paranoid around people and be outgoing! Hope y'all can help me out! Thanks :)
Kay well I don't like that I'm shy around basically everyone! Even my closest friends! Like I don't know why I'm like that! I don't really talk I'm mostly the listener in the group! Im shy around both the opposite and same sex! Idk how to approach girls cause some girls are kind of mean and snobby and think everything is about them. Plus I don't want to take a chance to try and meet that person cause Im afraid of them being rude to me or using me. I'm shy to approach guys cause guys are mean to me and say stuff about me behind my back but it seems like they can have respect for everyone else except me!
I think the reason that I'm shy is because I'm so concerned about what people think about me and because I have low self asteem and don't have confidence in myself! Like I always put myself down and compare myself to other girls and stuff like that! Also Im paranoid like I always think someone is talking about me when their not! Plus I always think negative but like I act negative at home not at schoo! Idk why I'm like that! That just me! So I was wondering how I can stop being so paranoid, shy and paranoid around people and be outgoing! Hope y'all can help me out! Thanks :)