Well.. I am a 16 years old girl.. I've been in love 3 times and each time just broke my heart.. ((1st one)) he was my cousin he showed me love and later after a year he loved another girl and he was treating me so bad.. so I broke up with him

.. ((second one)) he was play boy and everybody knew that including me I wasn't love him but when he tried many times to get to me and he really looked serious so I loved him but we broke up for a while but he talked to me again for coming back together and after couples days I called him and it was only 2 weeks or maybe less he was so sad that night and tired he said that he would sleep and study then he'll call back so I said OK but he didn't call not that night or after and I was so angry and I decided that I won't call until he does but he didn't call when I opened my e-mail he was online but he didn't talk to me so I ignored him after that he blocked me from face-book so I believed that every thing was over after that when I see him in the street he took the other turn never looks at me so I decided that time that I won't look at him if he hate me that much and he doesn't want me so when I did that he came to my class every time just to look at me driving his car while I'm walking I won't deny that I was so happy but he didn't come to took to me never calls I was so confused that time why he is doing stuff that don't match with each other I tried million times to forget him but I couldn't until..

( the 3rd one ))some other guy appeared he was that love form the internet thing I don't believe in that kind of love at all he was like telling that he loves me a lot I can't count it he was so strange he from another place he knew all of us I mean our school girls or boys through our page he got to be very popular now so every one was asking me do you have a crush on him? He sounds very in love with you ! So my answer was no I don't.. he was different very much different like

He knows what I am thinking what I feel every thing he really feels every thing I feel he says what I want to say before I even say it he told me every thing he sounded very truly so I thought why not I got to try I won't lose anything and so everyone feel and believe that he loves me and he is handsome my friends said oh Dina are you idiot how can you let him go he is sooo beautiful so I told him that I do love him and I told him that if he was trying to play with my heart or laying to me that won't be good he said no of course I love you and I'm not a jerk I swear to god that I love you very much and so we go about a month and I can't believe that guy has nothing to make me hate him so I got to love him and my love goes bigger day after day until a friend of mine told me that guy that's not his name and his brother doesn't called that name either you have to take care he seems to be someone else or maybe these not his photos

.. so anyway when I told him you are a lair and I told you that I hate lairs and so I hate you why did you lied to me every time he says because I love you and I didn't lie to you that's my real name everything was the truth except these photos aren't mine I'm not good looking even though I told him that I don't care how he looks like I said whatever you lied and you've got to know that everything is over bye he said OK that's better byyyye then he laughed.. what you are a big jerk ha said it would be better if you tell no one or I'll bring you problems.. I was shocked till now I can't believe what happened

... so what is the proplem I have is it bad luck? Or what? Is it me? Or all boys love to play with girls' hearts oh god!! Help Please

Well seeing as you are only 16, yes I would say it is bad luck. Not that you are unlucky but you are still quite young. If these men were in your age range it makes more sense as men take longer to mature than women. However, that being said, even if they were older than you a majority of males in society are still quite immature and in some cases are just jerks. I understand it hurts, but finding a decent guys these days is sadly, getting harder and since women seem to go for these "bad boys" there is really little incentive to be a nice decent guy in this age. However, they are still out there, and if you continue looking you will find someone that makes you happy and keeps you happy.

You have met some immature young guys, and given too much of your heart to them, and they didn't deserve it, or know what to do with it. Be more careful, and protect your heart much better.

Well all of them were older than me by a year.. and I hope to find someone that really cares about me and truthful just that and I can accept him whatever he is.. thnxx for helping :)

Yeah I was about to do anything for any of them in the name of love but they didn't deserve it.. and I'm trying to protect it as much as I can now.. thnxx for this advice :)