View Full Version : Is it bad to have a guy friend when your dating another guy?
auburngurl23
Jun 11, 2011, 01:06 PM
I was dating thhis guy for 4 months and then he breaks up with me cause he went through my phone and saw he text me a week before but I never text the guy friend back and he broke up with me cause I never told him he text me is this bad
Wondergirl
Jun 11, 2011, 01:11 PM
What did the texts say?
I would dump any boyfriend who checks my phone.
auburngurl23
Jun 11, 2011, 01:16 PM
He text me and said hey and I never text him back cause I knew he wld be mad at me
Wondergirl
Jun 11, 2011, 01:19 PM
he text me and said hey and i never text him back cause i knew he wld be mad at me
Why would he be mad at you?
It's VERY immature to prevent one's boyfriend or girlfriend from having friends of either gender.
auburngurl23
Jun 11, 2011, 01:24 PM
Cause he said he doesn't text his girl friends while we were dating and I did when we first startd dating and he told me if I loved him I wouldn't talk to my guy friend again so thts why I never text hom anymore
Wondergirl
Jun 11, 2011, 01:27 PM
cause he said he dosent text his gurl friends while we was dating and i did when we first startd dating and he told me if i loved him i wouldnt talk to my guy friend again so thts y i never text hom anymore
Please don't use texting on this site (against the rules plus it's very hard to read).
Like I said, it's VERY immature to prevent one's boyfriend or girlfriend from having friends. ***ADDED*** It's also very controlling behavior, so I certainly would be very watchful about anything else this person is doing to try to control things. "If you love me, you won't...." is one of the oldest types of manipulation around.
Curlyben
Jun 11, 2011, 01:29 PM
Please note:
Proper grammar and sentence structure is crucial to communication between human beings.
The use of proper English ISN'T an optional extra for use of this site, it is a prerequisite. (http://dictionary.reference.com/search?r=2&q=prerequisite)
The use of bad grammar and chat speak is seriously frowned upon.
Please type in coherent (http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=coherent) sentences (http://dictionary.reference.com/search?r=2&q=sentence).
Thank you.
There is NO reason for the continual lazy chat speak..
auburngurl23
Jun 11, 2011, 01:31 PM
Sorry yeah it is very immature I didn't care if he had friends I told him he could talk to his friends but he was wantn me to be the only I talked to
Wondergirl
Jun 11, 2011, 01:35 PM
Did you see this in my earlier post?
***ADDED*** It's also very controlling behavior, so I certainly would be very watchful about anything else this person is doing to try to control things. "If you love me, you won't...." is one of the oldest types of manipulation around.
What are you trying to say? This makes no sense -- "but he was wantn me to be the only i talked to."
amicon
Jun 12, 2011, 04:15 AM
He's controllong and manipulative-good riddance to bad rubbish.
Avoid him-no contact!