Ok I am 28 years old. I am a mother of 3 kids been, with the father off, and on for 10 years. I haven't had a car in 10 yrs, he has the car, and he has no job to support us. The father of my kids its absurd, he said my kids, who I do every thing for. I walked for 3 years, no car, every single school year, gave up all sleep, while he sleeps all day, does not do any thing to raise these kids, isn't really even a part of their life, only as a room mate. I am both mommy, and daddy, and still has the gut to talk down on me still calling me a dumb***, and all the names in the book.

He treats me like a slave, he doesn't help with homework, laundry, or well anything. He's always calling me names, he won't let me speak my mind, he tells me to shut up all the time, he doesn't take no for a answer, he treats me like a whore if I need my cigs or anything its what am I going to do for him, before I can get my stuff. He keeps me up at night till 3, and I have the kids to wake up, and take care of he doesn't. He demands me to get out, and pick up his burgers.

I've been talking to one of my exes who wants me back, and to treat me like a queen. He is sweet, and kind to me but, I don't know if I should just wait till all my kids are 18 to leave, or do I go, and start a new life :confused:

Start a new life, the old one sounds miserable, but not with another guy just yet as I can imagine your kids are confused enough.