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emilybeth23
Jun 10, 2011, 12:05 PM
We broke up recently because he couldn't handle my past. Do you think he will come back to me? I was his first love and he says he will always love me. And he said me and him will never be together anymore all my chances are gone. But do you think he really means it? Do you think it will change?

amicon
Jun 10, 2011, 01:12 PM
Who knows?

As for now,take his word for it and start the healing process so you can move on from the break up.

His not being able to 'handle your past' is a red flag.

BK201
Jun 10, 2011, 01:21 PM
If he is destined to be back, he will. But you can't keep expecting and waiting for such thing to happen. If you do so, you will just be wasting your time, if he is not going to be back. So, avoid thinking about the past no matter what, and move on. More happy things are waiting for you to be discovered.

NatuaralThinker
Jun 11, 2011, 07:55 AM
I would say move on. Face it and let the feelings not fester. Get someone who accepts you for who you are and was.

Sumitkumar7266
Jun 13, 2011, 03:57 AM
First of all he loved you for what you are.. If he is not able to handle your past then leave him,Someone will handle your past.. You have yourself respect.. If someone is leaving you then why should you wait for that person to come.. Move on.. Love is day to day process and if someone is not feeling the same then you can't do anything.. Best thing for you to move on and try to get some honest lover who will accept you and love you for what you are and not what you was..