View Full Version : How do I keep my boyfriend interested in me?
thebrooke4
Jun 7, 2011, 08:02 PM
He seems so excited when we met but, then he started to get use to me and now he doesn't seem like he is interested in me anymore. I need a little advice on what to do to make him question about me sometimes. And, his parents LOVVEEE me. But, I want them to learn about me too.
talaniman
Jun 8, 2011, 08:25 AM
Be patient and engage his mind. How old are you both, and how long have you been together? Sometimes you can try to hard to get attention, and you don't pay attention to him, and other things he likes and enjoys. Things he finds of interest.
BK201
Jun 8, 2011, 12:08 PM
When you spend time together, dedicate your time solely for him. The important thing is, when you are not spending time together, lead your independent life. Like girl's night or some party or anything that keeps you occupied. I would like to know, how often do you keep in touch with him. This is an important question in this case, because, nudging him every now and then eventually makes a guy think that he has won the girl, and there is nothing much left. This is exactly why a guy would slowly loose the interest. If you can remember, you would know all the things he had done to get your attention at the beginning of your relation. Because, you were new to him, and he didn't know much about you. Not to blame him, most of our men's brain are structured in such a way, for ex. I buy a new playstation 3, I treasured it for the first few months, now its covered with dust. As long as it is working fine, I'm happy with it.
Show him the independent, 'i have something that you don't know' part and he will get his entire attention back to you.
And showing interest in his interests is a good idea too.
Bold_ink
Jun 21, 2011, 11:10 PM
Guys have to feel a connection to really open up. So having psychical contact can help to create a more open relationship. Holding hands and talking, or standing behind him and rubbing his shoulders may help to open him up. Try asking him things about himself and then telling him the answer about yourself. Just never forget that men are very different than we are. Men do not always feel the need to know everything about there partner. Give your relationship time things may just change on there own.
kela808
Apr 21, 2012, 02:27 AM
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