atenik
Jun 2, 2011, 06:24 PM
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years! We are both over 30 yrs old.
Uplate I have been feeling as if I am being used ( in others words like my boyfriend is just a leach). I have my own place, car, job, etc.etc. very independent woman.
My boyfriend is living in a sub-leased apartment, has no car, and always depend on me to cook for him. He helps me out when he can ( buying dinner or paying for my hair and nails to be upkept).
My problem is uplate I 've been a finanicial rut. I have talked to him about it but he says nothing, not even to offer to pay for a con-ed bill or cable bill which he utilizes at my apartment. He also said he would start paying a bill or two of mine, being he stays at my apartment all the time.
He had gave me a debit card in his name which I had for about two months and he told me to use it whenever I needed money. Well the other day I used $100.00 off the card and three days later he asked for his card back saying he was broke and needed the card back, (yes he has more than one bank account) that's why I don't understand why he asked for the card back??
He talks a good game but I am starting to trust my inner feeling that he is looking for me to take care of him.
HELP! I need some feedback from some intelligent grown folk..
Uplate I have been feeling as if I am being used ( in others words like my boyfriend is just a leach). I have my own place, car, job, etc.etc. very independent woman.
My boyfriend is living in a sub-leased apartment, has no car, and always depend on me to cook for him. He helps me out when he can ( buying dinner or paying for my hair and nails to be upkept).
My problem is uplate I 've been a finanicial rut. I have talked to him about it but he says nothing, not even to offer to pay for a con-ed bill or cable bill which he utilizes at my apartment. He also said he would start paying a bill or two of mine, being he stays at my apartment all the time.
He had gave me a debit card in his name which I had for about two months and he told me to use it whenever I needed money. Well the other day I used $100.00 off the card and three days later he asked for his card back saying he was broke and needed the card back, (yes he has more than one bank account) that's why I don't understand why he asked for the card back??
He talks a good game but I am starting to trust my inner feeling that he is looking for me to take care of him.
HELP! I need some feedback from some intelligent grown folk..