My husband is a cross dresser and has been having sex with men

And what is your question?

Ruby, because each relationship is defined by the couple in it, I am hesitant to give any advice without knowing what boundaries have been discussed and set in this one. I know what my reaction is, but I don't know if that is the advice you need.

Please, supply more information such as:

How long have you been married?

How long has he been cross dressing? Have you always known about his fetish? If not, how did you find out?

Have you ever discussed his possible/apparent bisexuality and how it affects your marriage? Has he told you what he is doing or did you find out in another way?

Have you discussed his behavior with him? Are you both willing to work on your marriage or do you consider it over?

BillNi does not find this helpful : She is obviously dissatisfied and looking for advise on what to do.


Handing out reddies like candy. Are moderators looking at this?

BillNi does not find this helpful : She is obviously dissatisfied and looking for advise on what to do.


Handing out reddies like candy. Are moderators looking at this?

He needs to read the rules before he does it again... here is a link. I hope he reads it.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forum-help/using-comments-feature-official-guidelines-24951.html

Most cross dressers are not gay or bi. But they can be.
If you don't like him cheating on you, leave him?