jn909
May 26, 2011, 08:27 AM
MOVED FROM OLD THREAD
No one is actually helping this poor woman, just bickering about age (in 19 just in case you need to know).
I am having the same problem, my boyfriend used to initiate sex at the beginning of our relationship (over a year ago) but for a while it has been just me initiating. He rarely turns me down, but I feel so unwanted. I talked to him about it a while ago, staight out. He said "duely noted" and initiated sex that evening, never again though. I even tried not initiating sex for a few days to see if he would. The odd thing is he likes being 'dom' in bed (not all the time but it is his fantasy) yet won't initiate. I like being 'sub', so I don't really like to initiate...
Any tips?
Or do you just think he doesn't really fancy me any more?
No one is actually helping this poor woman, just bickering about age (in 19 just in case you need to know).
I am having the same problem, my boyfriend used to initiate sex at the beginning of our relationship (over a year ago) but for a while it has been just me initiating. He rarely turns me down, but I feel so unwanted. I talked to him about it a while ago, staight out. He said "duely noted" and initiated sex that evening, never again though. I even tried not initiating sex for a few days to see if he would. The odd thing is he likes being 'dom' in bed (not all the time but it is his fantasy) yet won't initiate. I like being 'sub', so I don't really like to initiate...
Any tips?
Or do you just think he doesn't really fancy me any more?