? Cause my cousin has 1 and she is 11

What's your cousin's definition of "having a boyfriend"? What does that mean?

Wondergirl needs more information, we all do, to give you an appropriate answer, read the rules before you give reddies out please.

Are you older or young than your cousin? By that, I'm wondering if you've had a boyfriend or two and are worried about what your cousin might be getting into when she's too young to handle the emotional stuff.

The definition of having a boyfriend can be anything from talking to each other at school and maybe helping each other with homework to extreme physical behaviors like lots of kissing, etc.

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In my opinion 11 is too young to be dating. Children can start hanging in mixed sex groups when they hit 13. One on One dating should wait until 14.

But children today try to grow up too fast. They may refer to someone as a boy/girlfriend who really isn't in the traditional sense. So come back, apologize to Wondergirl and give us enough info to help you.