hurting4
May 23, 2011, 09:36 PM
My father passed away recently far away which made me travel. We did not have the money for me to travel so my family lend me the money and I went. My husband did not go, but when I came back my husband did not even give me a shoulder to cry on nor did he show compassion. Any time that I have brought up the subject of my dad, he changes the conversation or just stays silent without a response. He is upset because I went knowing that we did not have the money and the 2nd thing is my husband can not understand why I cry so much when I have been so angry at my father all these years. My father was an alcoholic all his life, and I did have it very rough... but I was able to forgive my father before I knew he was ill. How can I make my husband understand what I am going through? Please any advice.. I am truly hurting and my husband does not listen to me.