mudweiser
May 17, 2011, 07:31 AM
Well I've had other threads pertaining to this friend of mine whom I've been friends with for such a very long time.. but here's a summary.
Friend meets bad guy who loves to be in jail and deal drugs and do drugs and lots of fun things like that... like abusing her-- verbally and physically. I tell said friend to stay away from him-- he's bad. She thinks otherwise. Stays with him and gets pregnant. I tell friend stay away from him baby doesn't need a man like that. Friend stays. Something happens (no sure exactly what) but they break up (finally!) and she moves back into mother's house. I tell said friend move here with me, stay far from that guy, get full custody with a no contact order-- protect that baby. Nothing. I find out she's still telling him she loves him even though a few days after he kicked her out of his house he has a new girlfriend living there. I keep telling her move on move on stay strong... etc.
Now we are at yesterday. His sister writes something on her Facebook wall-- insulting her and her baby. I tell my friend delete these losers off Facebook you don't need them in your life. Bad guy's sister says more insulting things to her so I sent her a private message and said "Grow a backbone! Do you like to be abused by this family?". Her retort "F--k you! You stupid b*tch-- F--k off...stop fighting like a 2 year old".
Now I'm hurt and angry.
I write on her wall saying how could she do that to me-- when I've tried my hardest to help her and that that guy ended our friendship.
More hurtful things are said from her.
I block her off FB and my phone.
My question: was I wrong?
Friend meets bad guy who loves to be in jail and deal drugs and do drugs and lots of fun things like that... like abusing her-- verbally and physically. I tell said friend to stay away from him-- he's bad. She thinks otherwise. Stays with him and gets pregnant. I tell friend stay away from him baby doesn't need a man like that. Friend stays. Something happens (no sure exactly what) but they break up (finally!) and she moves back into mother's house. I tell said friend move here with me, stay far from that guy, get full custody with a no contact order-- protect that baby. Nothing. I find out she's still telling him she loves him even though a few days after he kicked her out of his house he has a new girlfriend living there. I keep telling her move on move on stay strong... etc.
Now we are at yesterday. His sister writes something on her Facebook wall-- insulting her and her baby. I tell my friend delete these losers off Facebook you don't need them in your life. Bad guy's sister says more insulting things to her so I sent her a private message and said "Grow a backbone! Do you like to be abused by this family?". Her retort "F--k you! You stupid b*tch-- F--k off...stop fighting like a 2 year old".
Now I'm hurt and angry.
I write on her wall saying how could she do that to me-- when I've tried my hardest to help her and that that guy ended our friendship.
More hurtful things are said from her.
I block her off FB and my phone.
My question: was I wrong?