Hi,

I need some serious help , otherwise I wouldn't be posting on here even though a doc visit would be the right answer but ill try this.. so pretty much I'm a young guy, have been pretty horny for all of my life and recently since I finshed uo with school and have had no job, have been staying positive though ,I have lost my sex drive. I can go weeks without looking at porn or masterbating. When I'm with girls I don't even get hard. This is the first time in my life my **** was being suck and it was staying soft. Pretty embarrassing. Also my penis is very insensitive, when I do I have sex, I have to use my own hand to get hard and I can last forever where as before under normal circumstances if I hadn't have sex within 2 or 3 weeks, I mostly likiely wouldn't last long at all, This is a serious problem and I'm sure its psychological, I work out twice a day and eat healthy and sleep the right amount of hours. The mind is the greatest sex organ and lately my mind hasn't been thinking in a horny way like it should be in the younger 20's age... any help/ideas would be appreciated.. thanks! This has been going on for about 3-4 months, I just want to go back to the old me somehow..

Going to a doctor would help matters. Chances are you are stressed over not having a job. It is a known libido killer.

I would also lighten up on the masturbation grip. It sounds like you're getting too use to yourself. Though I think this is mostly psychological.

Remove the sources of stress and it should work itself out.

Yeah, how can I tell though if I'm stressed? I don't know the feeling to look for. masturbation is defintely lightened up, I rarely do it, and I do it just because, not beacuase my body wants it , how sad haha

This website (http://www.helpguide.org/mental/stress_signs.htm) is a good start. Do some reading up on it.

Stress is a killer. I have been down a long road that sounds a lot like what your dealing with. You might want to consider having hormone levels checked. I started by finding my testosterone was very low and then my thyroid was off I am now see a HRT ( hormone replacment theropy) They have made me a porn star again . Look up maximus hrt . Some simple blood tests will tell them and you what's going on. Good luck