dhorn
May 15, 2011, 04:09 PM
Ok everyone I gave birth to a little girl in 1999. Her dad and I was together since high school, we stayed together until 2000 that's when I found out he cheated on me and got another girl pregnant. I left him then. Well I started dating a guy of a different race and my family and her dad didn't like that. But my boyfriend was a good guy. Well her dad took her away from me and we went to court and we have joint custody and he lives with her. He is remarried with 2 other kids and I remarried to the guy they didn't like. Now my mom realize that she made a mistake helping him. I get my daughter who is 11 yrs old now every other wkend and every Wednesday 6-8pm. They moved 2 1/2 hrs away in Nov 2009. I went all that way to get her each wkend and every Wednesday. But the end of Dec 2009 she decided that she didn't want to come back with me anymore. I drove all that way for 4 time and she still didn't want to come back with me and never gave me a reason. I told my lawyer and she told me to call the law the next time I went down there so they can document it. Well Jan 2010 I went there again and of course she didn't want to come so I called the law. Of course they didn't do nothing about it. I got really depressed and had to get on depression meds. I never hurt so much in my life. Well I was going to sign up rights but couldn't do it. Then in Sept (her bday) my grandma, mom, my other daughters (2 and 4 yrs old) and I went down there for the wkend and got a hotel and took her shopping and whatever she wanted to do. That was the last time we seen her until Mar 2011 and she came over to my house for 1 hr to see her sister and she was rude to them, didn't want nothing to really do with them, when she left my 4 yr old kept telling her bye and she never would say bye back or hug anything. Well I had to pick up my 4 yr old off the ground because she was crying so hard. My 11 yr old doesn't want to come back to my house and I pay a lot in child support (which doesn't bother me), my husband (her step dad) carries the insurance on her and I pay all the med bills which has been A lot just this yr. And her dad doesn't even live with her and her step mom. So can someone please tell me what I should do now? Should I try to sign up rights or go back to court and have them see that my husband shouldn't be carrying the insurances and I shouldn't be paying for her med bills because I don't even know why she goes to the dr? I hope someone can help me because Im really confused and hurt.