I am having the same issue. Except I am 1 year younger than u. but I got tired of my mom going out with 15 guyz so I moved in wit my dad in 2009, then my mom got stable and got a nice condo with an awesome guy, and I moved in with my dad and his girlfriend, his girlfriend was cool until they got married later that year. Now she sux up his money, tries to control my life and gets all b****y to me over nothing, and we just moved to the middle of no-where and I had to leave all my friends, and my dad got a 12 hour shift so I see him for an hour every day in which he spends that time eating diner. And he just got her pregnant!! 1 and is spending money on insurance, and horses, and my old step mom got custody of my oldest sister who is 13, and everyone treets her like a queen, and makes me clean up her messes and if I get mad at her for breaking something( like my 16 gb ipod) I get grounded!! And she just yelled at me for not cleaning the cat box correctly. And got my dad involved. And I want to move in with my mom but she has had financial issues, and has missed child support for 4 years. And if I move in there my dad said he will get my moms money and we would be f%#*ed. And I don't want to do that to her. This is all because my dad has married 5 people and divorced 4 times. Please help!

First, no one will see this here. I have asked that it be moved to its own thread.

I think you are - for whatever reason - too involved with adult issues. If your father and stepmother want to have a child together it's none of your business (although it certainly changes your life); how they spend their money, likewise, is their decision. You complain because your father works 12 hour days? Hopefully when you are older you can find employment, contribute to family expenses and he can work fewer hours to support the family.

Have you been in therapy? Have you discussed any of this with a responsible adult, familiar with the situation?

Why do you think your stepmother changed her attitude toward you?

You need to seek professional help to help mend this issue. You are trying to control something that is way out of your hands. I would recommend to leave your parents because these are not your issues.

Good luck,
Javi