Hi friends,

Me and my girlfriend are in love for the last 2 years. We both are hindu but from a different caste.I informed this to my parents 18 months ago. Initially they did not agree but after 3 months they are convinced. Just 15 days back my girlfriend informed this to her parents and they are very much against this.Her elder sister and her husband also totally against this. Two times her parents came to a conclusion to marry her with me but one or the other from her family somehow spoils that decision. Her sister's husband saying that if her parents allow her to marry me then he and my girlfriend's sister will completely broke their relationship with my girlfriend's family. My girlfriend is very close to her family and she cannot take any decision against them.She is now 27 years old and I am 28 year old. We both are ready to wait for any number of years for their approval. Can anyone help me out in this problem?

Arun.

Keep pressing them, and get the support of an influential person that all respect. It may just take years and you may have to decide to do what you both want, and let the others who don't agree do what they think is best.