Asalamu-alaikum warehmatullahi wabarakatuhu
As I have heard one of the lectures of shiekh salem al-amri in which he says that if we have done something bad in our past we should not narrate it to anyone else as it will destroy our marital life and all. My question is what then if by chance tomorrow the person on which the effect is came to know about that in future after establishing with him or her and then also marital life will be destroyed and that too worse then that if I would have myself uttered and also is not it a kind of betray or cheat to the person so what is actually behind it.
Barakillahu-feeki