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Nayna25
Apr 28, 2011, 09:25 PM
My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year already and just like every couple we have our share of problems and fights. We have just got into a fight that caused us to have a break (the fight was cause he breaks too much promises) and during this break I started hanging with my best guy friend since 3rd again and he admitted to having feelings for me. Im so confused cause I have feelings for both guys. What do you think I should do?

NukeNC
Apr 28, 2011, 10:41 PM
If you do break up with your boyfriend for this guy, be straight with your boyfriend. Don't tell him some lie, when you know the truth to try to protect him. Yeah, he'll hate you for a while and probably be devastated but take it from somebody who had this happen to them... He won't look at you the same way and he'll have absolutely no respect for you.

amicon
Apr 29, 2011, 01:32 AM
Can I ask how old you are?

Generally speaking if you have feelings for more than one person,you probably shouldn't be with either.

talaniman
Apr 29, 2011, 07:12 AM
You better examine your feelings because jumping from one guy you are mad at to one who likes you is never a good idea. Intense feelings can lead you to some crazy places, and when they fade, and they will, you wonder what the hell were you thinking.

Let the dust settle, and see where your real feelings are.

Nayna25
Apr 29, 2011, 03:33 PM
Amicon: I am 18 about to 19 in some weeks

mmresd
Apr 30, 2011, 01:42 PM
I think you should pick. Think about what you want. And choose one of the two, just don't be a cheater and decide to play them both. An even better choice would be you choosing to say single and think about what it is you want before you jump into these vicious threesomes.

Good luck,
Javi