leapyear
Apr 26, 2011, 09:35 AM
I started talking to this guy 6 months ago on a dating site. WE talked everyday vis texts, phone calls and skype - all day everyday! (around work) Eventually we decided to meet, and I went over to Dublin (I live in UK) to meet him! (After 4 months of chatting etc)
Everything was perfect whilst I was there, he was such a gentleman! When it came to leaving, I got very upset, and I know he did too, but wad hiding it for my sake I think.
Anyway, since being back, contact isn't as much. Although he has reassured me that there isn't a problem.
He used to call me beautiful, and sweetheart etc etc, now he only refers to me as "Hun"! Something has changed between us...
Anyway, last week I was on FB and on my home page was notification that he liked some girls profile on a dating site - I joined this site out of curiosity, and found that he was a member on there and had been on there very recent.
I kicked off, and told him that I would not being going back to Dublin the following week and he was obviously still wanting to see/meet other girls.
He responded saying that he never even opended half the mails he got on there etc.. And that I always find fault in everything etc, and with the distance, I had to learn to chill out as our "relationship" wasn't a normal one.
Anyway, I asked him if he wanted to end it and go our separate ways - he ummm'd and aaa'd. I then asked if he wanted to be just friends, and he said that would be the bare minimum we'd ever be - then changed the subject and everything went back to normal so I assumed that we were giving it another go.
Anyway, we always talk everyday. But I have not heard from him for almost two days now, and he has switched both phones off so I can't get hold of him. I had a delivery report last night, but then he switched phone back off, and he never replied.
Does this sound like he's finished it? Or should I just wait and see? I'm soooo confused!
Everything was perfect whilst I was there, he was such a gentleman! When it came to leaving, I got very upset, and I know he did too, but wad hiding it for my sake I think.
Anyway, since being back, contact isn't as much. Although he has reassured me that there isn't a problem.
He used to call me beautiful, and sweetheart etc etc, now he only refers to me as "Hun"! Something has changed between us...
Anyway, last week I was on FB and on my home page was notification that he liked some girls profile on a dating site - I joined this site out of curiosity, and found that he was a member on there and had been on there very recent.
I kicked off, and told him that I would not being going back to Dublin the following week and he was obviously still wanting to see/meet other girls.
He responded saying that he never even opended half the mails he got on there etc.. And that I always find fault in everything etc, and with the distance, I had to learn to chill out as our "relationship" wasn't a normal one.
Anyway, I asked him if he wanted to end it and go our separate ways - he ummm'd and aaa'd. I then asked if he wanted to be just friends, and he said that would be the bare minimum we'd ever be - then changed the subject and everything went back to normal so I assumed that we were giving it another go.
Anyway, we always talk everyday. But I have not heard from him for almost two days now, and he has switched both phones off so I can't get hold of him. I had a delivery report last night, but then he switched phone back off, and he never replied.
Does this sound like he's finished it? Or should I just wait and see? I'm soooo confused!