Hi I'm a 13 year old girl who need help with an trauma. You see there that 5 mounths ago me, my mom, my dad, my little brother and my dog were in a boat accident. It was cinda late at night and we were planning to go and wisit my grandma cause she was on the hospital, and since my dad loves the boat he decided to take the boat there. 30min before we got to our planned destinasion our boat drove rigt onto and small unhabbited island, and we all almost got killed. The reason was that our navigation system had for some weird reason suddeny broken and it was all wrong. When our boat was about to crash into the island I remember my mom screamin my dads name and then watch out, I was laying on our couch and I just thought it was some weird dream, but then suddenly I heard a weird loud noise and then our boat suddenly stopped and I remember being trown off the couch and down onto the flor, and the next I remember I was already up on my feet and below my feet there are pieces of glass everywhere I look down on my arm and I see that I'm bleeding really bad from a big scar... my parents makes sure that me and my little brother + my dog get out safely. Afterwords my dad checks me and my little brother to see if were seriously injured or anything. After my dad has checked me and my brother he makes all these calls and then he teels us that my grandfather (on my father side) is going to be here in 30min. While my dad is talking I end up sitting still and quietly examening my wounds, I find one big scar on my arm, one on my knee, over 5 down on my foot and I also realised after a while that I had gotten a hole in my head. After a while my grandpa comes to pick us up and after we arrive on dry land we immedietly get driven to the hospital. The night of the accident by mom comes and tells me and my little brother that if we get anny nightmares of the accident we just have to tell her and then we went to sleep. 1 month passed, 2 mounth's passed, 3 mounth's passed and I don't have any nightmares or any kin og traumas and then all of a sudden I start having these weird drems of the accident, and for some reason I can't get it out of my mind. I end uphaving these weird twisted dreams of the accident and I end up having these weird dreams og death like my family getting killed and stuff like that and... there... is... blood, everywhere! Now resently my dreams have gotten worse and I hardly get any slep at all, I can't get the accident out of my head, in class I can't concentrate because of it, I allways end up thinking abaot it and I always end up thinking: what if... we had been just a little bit more unlucky, and when I think about that I gett really frightend. The trauma is keeping awake at night and disturbing me at school and I don't know why it came so late... please someone help me, I don't know what to do.

Did you tell your mom like she asked you to do?

The best thing would be for you to go to therapy to discuss the accident and the dreams and constant thoughts about it.

That's most likely why your mom wanted you to tell her if you start worrying about it.

So tell your mom, she'll see to it that you get the help you need.

I know that I'm supposed to do that but I have problems with having serious converesations, so the problem is that if I talk to my mom about it shel start talking all serious to me and I can't handle that, so I don't know what to do.

You are going to have to learn how to handle serious conversations sooner or later. Better to talk to your mom and get used to them now before you are an adult and can't hold a job because you can't talk to people.

I know but, I'm not really close to my mom so it's cinda hard to talk to her... with like my friends and once in a while with a teacher I can like handle them but not with anyone in my family...

My concern is "StrawberryCuty"'s posts about hauntings, spirits and ghosts. The questions have run from guardian angels to haunted computers and back again. I think there is a real need for professional intervention here.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/paranormal-phenomena/am-being-haunted-help-572693.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/paranormal-phenomena/computer-ghost-572717.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/spirituality/do-have-guardian-angel-could-grandfather-572713.html;

My concern is "StrawberryCuty"'s posts about hauntings, spirits and ghosts. The questions have run from guardian angels to haunted computers and back again. I think there is a real need for professional intervention here.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/paranormal-phenomena/am-being-haunted-help-572693.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/paranormal-phenomena/computer-ghost-572717.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/spirituality/do-have-guardian-angel-could-grandfather-572713.html;

In my opinion she's just a typical 13 year old girl with a very vivid imagination.