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garima_07
Apr 25, 2011, 02:09 AM
Hello guyzz... there is a problem with my fndzz.. they doesn't like my boyfriend,bcoz they think that he is a cheater.I really respect my friends,and I know they will only think about my life,and they care about me but,my boyfriend really loves me... he cares about me a lot.my friends get wrong information from anyone that my boyfriend had another girlfriends..! and now they really abuse him,insult him,and I don't like that... and my boyfriend listen them just because of me... I don't know what to do,I really love my boyfriend,even him.. but I love my friends tooooo... my friends are forcing me to breakup with him,but I can't and even I can't hurt my friends.my boyfriend is not perfect,I know but we are in love... I had a beautiful relationship with him,and don't want to breakup.
All time my friend message me,"i got a info dat ur boyfriend is like this..he is like dat".I know evrything about my boyfriend,he shares everything with me.he had many female friends,and I don't have any problem with that.. but my friends had a doubt on him.I trust him,hr will never hurt me.he is saying one we'll have a brekup only because of your friend,and friends are saying our friendship will end because of your boyfriend.
I think no one cares about my feelings.This love and friendship really sucks guyss.

redhed35
Apr 25, 2011, 02:30 AM
Sounds like your friends do care about you, BUT they are interfering.

So, you get all your friends together, no boyfriend present, and you let them know, you know they care about you and want what's best for you, but so far your boyfriend is treating you really well, and you really like him, maybe he did cheat in the past with another girl, before you, but that does not mean he has cheated on you.

Then plan a bowling session or something where they can get to know him, ask them to try and get to know him maybe they will change their minds.

On the other hand you may be blinded by your feelings for him and maybe they see something in him that you don't.

Boyfriends come and go, even the ones you think will last forever, good friends are harder to come by.

You can keep your friends and your boyfriend, but you have to find a way for everyone to get along.

Xan-Kriegor
Apr 25, 2011, 02:35 AM
Why "i had a beautiful relationship with him... "? Is it over with your boyfriend now?

Gem_1995
Apr 25, 2011, 07:15 AM
From past experiances your friends tend to be right about guys.

If they're your close friends then they may have your best interests at heart! You have to learn that relationships come and go and I know you feel like he's your life and all but things probably will change. Your mates just don't want you to get hurt because they're the ones left trying to pick up the pieces and the last thing you want is for you two to break up and your mates have left you because you wouldn't listen... you'll be left with nothing!