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raviranjan2212
Apr 24, 2011, 11:48 AM
I had never thought the love holds this much of importance in someone's life. I want to share my experience with you, which may help me to come out from this penetrating pain. I will explain you from the beginning when first time I saw that girl. It was Microsoft interview when I met the most pretty girl of the world, she was so pretty that I couldn't hold control on myself and went to talk to her. She also responded me well and you know we both mingled so nicely that we came out side of the interview premises and talked around hours and hours(we missed that interview because till the time we realized we are here for interview the selection procedure was over.). For the starting of one month we were treating each other like friends, but slowly slowly as the time passed I felt she is more than a friend.. She was also having some feelings for me... One day she called me and asked to say whatever is there in my heart, at that time I was bit nervous so didn't said anything to her, she became angry and disconnected the call.
Anyhow I boosted myself and thought to tell her those golden words but due to lack of confidence you know what I did, I wrote a message and proposed her. Immediately she called me and asked are you proposing me in message? You nuts, and she started laughing. Then with mild voice I said I LOVE YOU, she replied OK. I asked what does OK means, she again laughed and said you love me that's Ok. I was confused and after few days I asked her either accept me as your boyfriend else don't contact me. That day she told me the biggest shocking news which shattered me into pieces, she told that within few months she will get married so she don't to hurt me by accepting my love. She accepted if I could have met her before then surely we could have been moving on some other path but now she was unable to do anything... Finally she got married but I did some mistakes before her marriage, I want to commit my mistakes. I spoke very harshly to her and made her cry by saying some crap things to her.
Now she is not in contact with me she has changed her number also, but the feelings which she aroused in my heart is still alive.
I still love her madly and wish she could be mine. I have her snaps in my mobile and I have set that pic as wallpaper so that I can watch her all the time. Be happy in your life hope I will get someone in my life too, but no one can replace you my love 'Su'.

MY QUESTION IS WHAT SHOULD I DO TO FORGET HER? She is in my veins..

Ravi.

talaniman
Apr 24, 2011, 02:39 PM
Just think of how was dishonest, and cruel, while she led you on and played you for a chump. Then you can forget her and move on, after you get over your anger.

Intense feelings of attraction, good or bad takes time and effort before they finally fade.

Sumitkumar7266
Apr 24, 2011, 09:54 PM
Buddy you should forget her and it will be good for your life too if you will do this ASAP.. Your love was blind,might be she loves you and she din't told but it doesn't matter.. Now the thing is she is married and she will never come back in your life.. She is happy with her family.. Now it's the time for you to move on.. We should not wait for the one who din't loved you.. Wait for the gal who will come in your life with lots of love and she will not leave u.. She will do everything to make you happy.. Ur happiness will be her happiness.. Wait for the time.. May god give you a loving and caring girlfriend.. All the best..

raviranjan2212
Apr 25, 2011, 08:28 AM
Thanks for the quick response, I too don't want to hurt myself anymore.. I am having good time with my friends but sometime when I see my friends talking to their girlfriend I feel jealous :/... Recently I joined Wipro but there also mah bad luck, no good girl to whom I can approach :8(.. Hope one day I will meet her..

mmresd
Apr 25, 2011, 02:27 PM
Obsessing over someone that quick and so fast is never healthy. I am guessing that these is one of the first amorous encounters you have ver had because your point of view in this field seems very childish. Just let time pass by, and she will fade from your memory eventually. Just don't setup your life around this girl, and move on with your life.

Good luck,
Javi