I had been dating a guy for 6 months. We were great no arguments, met his family, friends, they all loved me. In the 6 months he told me he loved, I fell in love with him too, I let my guard down even though I was scared too because I had been hurt before in a previous relationship. I opened up everything. In the 6 months we broke up 3 times. 1st time he dumped me because of some drama, then the 2nd time he done it because I was so guarded and didn't show emotion, now this time it was because of some Face book status. I post things on fb all the time. Metaophors about me and women. His mom sees them and asked (him)if there was problem between me and him. He says no he gets on fb and gets mad because he says that I'm talking like I'm single. How is that. We were good, they had nothing to do with us. So he ends it. I even posted on fb that everything I put on there was not about me or my relationship. I tried to make things right with him. He still pushed me away and doesn't want to be with me. I tried giving him his space thinking it would change things but it didn't. He tells me he would rather be single than to keep going back and forth. Yes that's true if we would have talked about the issue but he just wants to give up on us. He gave me the key to his house, we talked about moving in togther (just talked) he was a great guy. I want him back because I was so happy with him. Was I at fault.. I hope one day he will realize he had a good woman.

I think he still loves you but he hesitates to get back to you... try to talk more to him...

You let him dump you 3 times?? That's should have been enough times for any one.

It's a real red flag when someone calls it quits instead of being willing to work it out.

That's a sign that the are not as involved as they should be, or committed as their partner is.

The real issue is why you went back those 3 times! That's the bigger red flag to me.

No you were Not wrong hun!! How could he just give up on u guys?! It's a stupid excuse to break up!! I mean if he really wants u he wouldn't give so easily ! I mean maybe got mad and angry but NOT break up ! Well I'am sure he will realize that he had a great woman Be sure...
all what I can tell know is just try to move on with your life.. or at least make him think that you are! Then maybe he would think back and realize how great you were together...
Sarah from Algeria ^^
I hope U would like my answer

He breaks up with you at the drop of a hat?

You want him back?

You can't be serious!

Leave him to his happy singlehood,heal and move on.

Thanks guys for all the feed back. We did end up getting back together after that situation. Everything was cool back to normal. He said he was tired of running and wanted to move in with me. Then 2 weeks later ends it with me saying that we don't have a connection anymore, when we broke up he said it did something to him, he's saying he's having issues he needs to deal with, money issues, he told me I needed to find someone compatible with me. He just wanted to be by himself.. *** huh! Bs more excuses I knew something else was up.. long story short the time we were broke up he was talking to someone else. He posted on fb he was in a relationship with someone else.. now isn't that something. And he acted like he didn't even care. He told me I had ruined the relationship. I don't he really loved me anyway.. I just wanted it to work so bad. Because I was so happy with him and he knew this. I'm just going to give up on love and dating. As soon as I do try I end up getting hurt.

Heal from this,hopefully,final break up with this emotional incompetent.

A couple of months down the road you'll feel like dating again-take your time getting to know the people you date and have fun.

Arguing, communicating, resolving conflicts, etc. are a normal part of any relationship.

It is always a big red flag to me when I hear 'we never argued', as though that were something good. It isn't. People argue, it's a part of life. The key is learning how to argue effectively.

This may be more of a quick end to the relationship, because the problems weren't dealt with. Any relationship needs to mature, and build a foundation of trust, so that when issues do come up, you know that you will resolve them. Ignoring them, burrying them, or hoping they will go away, just doesn't work.

Getting back together because you miss each other, is superficial. What would the reasons be, how to you attack the backlog of problems that caused the split(s) in the first place, get past them, and work together honestly to communicate before another split happens.

The two of you split several times, and probably neither of you really know why. There is a difference between hoping for the best, and learning how to make the best happen. Relationships are hard work, with two people committed to whatever gets thrown their way. And arguments and disagreements happen, and they are worked through.

If you are expecting future relationships to be better than this one, that appears over, I hope you learn that what you had was no measure of success.