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groovydude99
Apr 21, 2011, 07:28 PM
My boyfriend is always hanging out with this one girl. She is gorgous, and all the guys like her. My man is always hanging with her, whether its lunch, or if they go to the mall together. We never get that much time. Should I be worried?

ITstudent2006
Apr 21, 2011, 08:12 PM
If you're mature enough to be in a stable relationship then you are mature enough to sit him down and express your feelings.

Have you? What did he say?

If something bothers you in a relationship, you express those feelings to the other individual. NEVER put your feelings aside for the betterance of the other person. A relationship is 50/50 no matter what way you turn it.

Sumitkumar7266
Apr 22, 2011, 02:18 AM
Yes obviously.. He should hang out with you not other gals.. If she is just friend then there should be some limit but now if he is enjoying her company then talk to him about this..

amicon
Apr 22, 2011, 03:49 AM
How old are you?

You need to talk to him about it and tell him you're concerned.

sahar.
Apr 23, 2011, 02:26 AM
Let him go... he is nothing but a womanizer!

Alty
Apr 23, 2011, 02:32 AM
I agree with the other posters. If this bothers you, talk to him about it. The only way for him to know you don't like this is for you to tell him.

Alty
Apr 23, 2011, 02:55 AM
It's very possible, even probable, that this guy is just friends with the other girl, and he has no idea that his girlfriend is bothered by it.

talaniman
Apr 23, 2011, 09:42 AM
The ages would sure help, but talking and listening to each other is what's needed. Then you would know if there was a need to worry or not.


And yeah, I did the editing thing on the personal stuff.

let-go
May 25, 2013, 06:00 PM
Yes, it is possible for a guy to have a girl/woman friend, but surely if he likes hanging out and around her more then he do you and if they do things together like a boyfriend and girlfriend, Oh yes, yes, yes, there more to that so-called friendship!