My girlfriend broke it off with me because her husband read one of our emails and gave her an ultimatum. She still contacts me and flirts with me in a sexy nway when we are together but is also very hot and cold. Should I apply NC and see if she responds. Would NC help in these circumstances?

Yes it would help you from continuing on a stupid dead end street, and maybe get a girl of your own for a healthy adult relationship.

It could also save you from being injured badly by her husband. And her too!!

I'm sorry... but why are you with another man's wife? I can't imagine anyone will tell you to continue a relationship with her. Are you wanting to continue seeing her?

Most definitely you should go NC and ignore any response you may get from her. Perhaps it doesn't matter to you, but if she cheats on her husband, you can be sure she will cheat on you.

You should have done the NC before you started, since she is married,

But yes NC

Thanks everyone. I needed to hear that from someone.I appreciate your kindness and I know its time to be kind to myself.I know that what you all say is true and ,although we sometimes can't help who we fall in love with ,its hard to convince ourselves to see reality. I didn't really post to get anyone to sympathise with me ,just to hear excatly what you all wrote and now I have a reference to look at when my will quavers. Thanks again

Good,now go no contact and stay strong.

Best of luck!

Try convincing her for divorcing her hubby and get re-married. That just solves the problem and the Husband doesn't mind, because, he will not have as much love for her as you have.
To think this way, for most people, it feels bad. But in western Countries they are all also living like us, and the divorce is common there.
But if she has children, you and she has to decide about taking care of them, before doing it (Only real lover can do that).
"So, just go ahead and give a try"