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AkshayBadhan
Apr 20, 2011, 12:19 PM
My question is this that i belong to schedule caste and my love is a sikh... she,her brothr and her father have no problem with the marriage but her mother has a very big problem with this... she don't want her daughter to be maried in other caste she want the marriage in her cast
JudyKayTee
Apr 22, 2011, 09:22 AM
That's a statement. What is your question?
AkshayBadhan
Apr 22, 2011, 11:40 AM
My question is that how can i convince girls mother for being a good choice for her daughter and tell her that caste doesnot even even matter when you are in love... this is my question how to convince girls mother..?
JudyKayTee
Apr 22, 2011, 12:39 PM
Please don't type in caps - it's hard to read.
I'm in the US, totally unfamiliar with the caste system.
How important is her mother's approval to you?
AkshayBadhan
Apr 23, 2011, 09:05 AM
Hers mother approval is very important to me because in INDIA mother is seen as god and how can I make my love to betray her god her birthgiver... It is very important to me that her mother approves our marriage because if her mother will not be satisfied with the marriage then I will held myself responsible for mothers unsatisfaction...
JudyKayTee
Apr 23, 2011, 10:28 AM
You cannot make anyone else love you, like you, appreciate you. That's the unfortunate truth. I think it's wonderful that your culture so reveres your mother. We could use a lot more of that here in the US.
Unfortunately under the circumstances I don't think you can change the mother's mind.
AkshayBadhan
Apr 24, 2011, 02:05 AM
Oh OK but any other way to be used because I cannot forget her and cannot live without her...
I am incomplete without her
JudyKayTee
Apr 24, 2011, 07:57 AM
No, I find no other way.
She either defies her family OR she does not defy her family (and hopes time changes things). Those are the only two options.
AkshayBadhan
Apr 25, 2011, 01:33 AM
Thanks lets find out how time goes up,, goes with me or oes against me...