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natasha1234
Apr 19, 2011, 06:16 AM
Hello.. on behalf my bro!
My bro an his girlfriend moved way to another state to have there baby in aus to be with her family ( right thing to do) he has now left her and she was letting him have bubs over night thou day and making it all easy... but now its gone down hil she want to move state and is not letting him have anything to do with his child? They are about to go thou medation but is it tru she can just pack up and leave and head to a different state and not let him see her if there is no orders in place? He wants to see her and pays childsupport and buys so much for her when she is on a single income earning more than him because he is on a trainee ship it seems so unfair he knows no one over there and she has all her family standing in frnt him to not let him in!

GV70
Apr 19, 2011, 06:43 AM
Ooops! Would you like to explain us the problem in plain English?

JudyKayTee
Apr 19, 2011, 07:36 AM
hello.. on behalf my bro!
My bro an his gf moved way to another state to have ther baby in aus to be with her family ( right thing to do) he has now left her and she was lettin him have bubs over nite thou day and makin it all easy... but now its gone down hil she want to move state and is not lettin him have anythin to do with his child? they are about to go thou medation but is it tru she can just pack up and leave and head to a differnt state and not let him see her if ther is no orders in place? he wants to see her and pays childsupport and buys soo much for her when she is on a single income earning more than him beacuse he is on a trainee ship it seems soo unfair he knows no one over ther and she has all her family standing in frnt him to not let him in!


I'm going to give this a shot -

If your brother has not gone to Court to be legally named the father of the child the girlfriend can take the child and go anywhere she wants to go. He has rights but he cannot enforce them.

Mediation? Who is mediating this situation and why?

If he wants to see his child he needs to go to Court and ask for an Order allowing him to see the child. At this moment she has all the rights.

NOW - if they've already been to Court concerning paternity and/or support and/or visitation he would go back to Court (if she's not obeying the Court Order) and get it enforced.

Is that what you asked?