edwinagirardet
Apr 17, 2011, 01:41 PM
I met a guy at work and before I go any further, let it suffice to say we are both married, but I am totally bored (we have sex maybe three times a year). My colleague and I clearly had an attraction between us and even one of his colleagues told me how much he liked me. At the Christmas party (yes, I know, a cliche), I got rather drunk and told him how much I liked him as a colleague. He said something about his wife, and I said, "why are you always talking about your wife?" and he said to me, "and why are you never talking about your husband to me?" I got embarrassed and left. Anyhow, I left and a few days later, he came to see me, and I apologized for drinking too much and he said, "no he didn't mind what I had said to him and just wanted to know what he should do about my husband if I got like that again." I got really embarrassed because at one point he looked deeply at me and said my name three times in a very personal way. Clearly I had stepped over the line with him and he seemed confused as to what to do about it. Anyhow, I haven't seen him in a few weeks and he has resurfaced sending me an e-mail. I wrote back saying, it was good to see he was back at work and we should catch up. He wrote back suggesting a coffee but I didn't answer. Then I saw him and he said, "are we going to get together next week, and have lunch? Will you call me?" I don't know if he wants to rekindle our strange little mutual attraction, or take it to another level, or sort of just be colleagues?