blah1011
Apr 15, 2011, 07:12 PM
Well, my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 and a half months now and before we started dating we spent a month of pretty much just spending a lot of time together and getting to know each other than the love started building up and we've gotten extremely close in the past couple months.. but a month and a half ago she let me in that this boy she's had a on and off thing with ever since she was 12 was in the army and on life support and that he was going to be taken off it on the 26th so when that happened she got really depressed they were off course cause we were dating and so her mom asked if I could do something to help her through this tough time something to cheer her up so I asked her to prom in a cute way and on the night I do she finds out someone else passed away she was close with these two deaths happened within a week of each other well about a week after the 2nd death she says she wants a break.. she has depression she takes medicine for it and I'm just wondering what should I do? Cause she's acting completely different, even leading up to the death that she knew was going to happened we talked all the time and never got sick of each other, never argued, we were doing fantastic to say the least, and than all this happened and I'm just wondering what I can do to help her through this tough time and not lose her. When she said she wanted a break she called me and we talked about all of what's happened and we both started to cry and than she said she wanted a break.. I'm just wondering what's the best thing I can do right now, I send her a goodmorning and goodnight text with a little message in it showing I care, and I just need help with my situation cause not being with her is driving me crazy, I'm not insecure or worried that she will cheat I trust her completely, I just want some advice I'm so lost on what to do, I just want her to be happy like she was before all this happened.