Eurghh.Men.I have been with a Guy for quite a while now and we were great friends before this, I'm kind of scared that if I dump him we won't be able to be friends again but I'm also angry at myself because I like this guy a lot but I'm falling for someone else.Before I went out with him it was between him and another guy, except the other guy is such a good friend I'm was scared to tell him how I felt beacause I was scared he would think I'm a freak and never talk to me again, He's so far out of my llegue and so is the guy I'm with, but all I can think about it the other guy I'm not with. The guy I'm with is getting clingy and wants to see me all the time. I know the othe guy would never like me so I don't even want to get my heartbroken by him too, but I'm scared someone may find out that I'm only with my Boyfriend because I'm too muchh of a lemon to tell the guy I do like that I love him and that it's always been him. Every time I see my boyfriend though I think I'm an idiot to lose a guy as a nice as him he's great and funny and good looking, full package... but he isn't my full package :L I don't know what to do ? Help someone anyone who may have been in the same place... :(

Harshness warning

Its time to make a decision for yourself.

Either make a choice to figure out the right thing to do, by being honest with yourself and others, OR

Keep feeding your fears, and hiding your motives, and be a lying cheater, and a false friend.

Its your choice, so do the right thing.

My advice to you is to make a pro and cons list of both of the guys. The list will be based on the features that you like and the one that you dislike. After you are done with the list analyze the list and take a breather. Now that you have the list you have to think about the best outcome for yourself, no one else matters in this moments but yourself. How would it be if you are with someone and how would it be if you are with the other one. You need to really analyze what is better for you. That will be my best advice to you.

It's Harsh, but Correct. My suggestion is also, do the right thing.