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chandrad2006
Apr 14, 2011, 12:01 PM
Is it easy for me to get pregnant if my and my boyfriend been having unprotected sex but he says he pulls out and he won't *** in me. Should we really be usuing condoms even though he says all those things and I have full trust in him?
Wondergirl
Apr 14, 2011, 12:13 PM
How old are you? (a requirement for this board)
justcurious55
Apr 14, 2011, 12:13 PM
Yes, if would be really easy for you to get pregnant. This has nothing to do with trust. You can trust your guy all you want, but it's not going to do a thing to prevent pregnancies, hopefully it'll be enough to protect you from any stds, but certainly not pregnancy. You should be using condoms. And other methods such as a hormonal birth control AND spermicide in addition to condoms would be a good idea too. Keep in mind, no form of birth control, or even multiple forms is 100% effective even when used correctly. ANY TIME you have sex there is ALWAYS some chance of pregnancy. Using protection and using it correctly though will at least decrease that chance.
I would recommend talking with your doctor about all of your birth control options and confirming that you are not already pregnant.
chandrad2006
Apr 14, 2011, 12:19 PM
I am 19 years old
CravenMorhead
Apr 14, 2011, 12:26 PM
Your boyfriend is an idiot. I mean that in the nicest possible way of course. All his precum has sperm in it. So when he puts his baby maker in your oven he is putting bun seeds all in you. If doesn't matter if he pulls out because there is already sperm in your vagina. The only difference is that the one that impregnates you will the faster of 10,000 instead of several million.
You're playing russian roulette here. Wear a condom, use spermicide and if you're really concerned about pregnancy then go on a hormonal birth control. Stop having sex without a condom. You will get pregnant, it is just a matter of time.
Wondergirl
Apr 14, 2011, 01:13 PM
1) sex = pregnancy
It might happen right away, or maybe not till later, but it will happen (even with birth control being used!! ). If you don't believe me, read the Teen and Pregnancy boards on this site.
2) Pulling out is NOT birth control.
Saying that pulling out prevents pregnancy is one of the biggest scams in the history of male-female relationships.
3) Use at least two forms of birth control.
Three is even better. And use them correctly.
ScottGem
Apr 15, 2011, 04:52 PM
And I find it very hard to believe that someone in law school would know so little about sex and pregnancy.
This thread too is closed.