View Full Version : Please help I have guy friend problems
Cowgirl96
Apr 13, 2011, 11:49 AM
Ok so I really really really like this guy. I met him last year camping we where both playing be ball. We talked and became like insepetrabel. But I'm not aloud to date yet (I can in like a year) I think he would be cool with a I like you you like me but we are not "dating" thing. But there's some problems, I'm 14 he's 12! Before you think I'm crazy he does not look or act it and I did not know he was that young till I already liked him. Also how do I know if he likes me I don't want to mess are friend ship up. So any hints on how to tell? Also if he does how do I hint to let him know (I DON'T want to flat out say it. We start camping soon and I need help. The whole dang campgroun (or at least the kids and teens) think he's my boyfriend and I don't think that bothers him at all when we ate walking with are friends he puts his arm around me. Does that mean he might like me back? HELP!!
guitarchick12
Apr 19, 2011, 07:56 AM
Try talking to him. Casually ask if he has feelings for anyone since he seems very flirty with you, and doesn't seem to mind that people think you date. He might like you but you'll never know unless you take a risk be brave and ask him.
Rocky10
Apr 24, 2011, 10:42 AM
Okay. So. Here's what you do.
Are you friends with any of his guy friends?
If your are then ask one of them to find out and don't take your name.
Trust me it'll workk <3
Hope you find out. <3
Cowgirl96
Apr 27, 2011, 09:21 PM
Ok people I have good news and bad news. Good news he did like me last year bad news don't know if he still does. I found that out because I'm good friends with his best friend. (Heehee I knew that would come in handy) but still anymore tips are welcome and thanks to y'all who answered. :D
Alty
Apr 27, 2011, 11:31 PM
Fact is, he's 12. At 12 relationships are a weekly thing. Most 12 year olds don't date long term.
Also, you said you're not allowed to date until next year, when you're 15. He's only 12. What makes you think he's allowed to date?
I'd give up on this and find someone your own age. At 12 and 14 the difference in maturity can be very great.
Cowgirl96
Apr 28, 2011, 06:13 AM
Um sorry I'm new and not sure how to work this sight that so I don't know how to post but from here. Yes I see the large age dif and not sure about it. He is berry mature for his age I'm fact to look and talk to host people thanks he's like 15. And um actually when I'm 15 he will be 13 like a mouth before that. Bit I'm not sure it would be a good idea for is to date because mature or not he is almost 2 years younger. Oh and yes he can date and you asked how I know I'm good friends with him and his family and his best friend Matt
Cowgirl96
Apr 28, 2011, 06:15 AM
Wow sorry I promise I can spell! I had a ton of mistypes I'm very, very sorry!
amicon
Apr 29, 2011, 01:56 AM
He's still too young Cowgirl;I'm sure you like him,but at your ages 2 years is a massive gap.
I would make more friends my own age if I were you.
Cowgirl96
May 1, 2011, 08:16 PM
Thx for all the ansewrs I agree there is a big gap and I'm just going to move on. I hate that I did not know his age to begin with I would have prob never liked him. I'm worried about the fact that though he is I am also mature for my age. I have been very clear I want to be just friends and I'm sure he will soon move on to a different hopefully younger girl thanks!
amicon
May 1, 2011, 11:27 PM
Good luck Cowgirl!