I met this man about five months back. We started talking and I had no idea that he was married. Until I started to ask questions like why could I never go over your house and why do you always have to leave early. By than my feeling started to get involved and one night when we got drunk the truth came out. I was speechless and I wanted so badly to stop talking to him but I can't. This man calls me every day and every night when he get's off work. At first I didn't mind but now I want more to our relationship and I know that it can never be but it's hurting me more when I try not to answer the phone and when I see him. What shall I do?

You have to get it through your head that this man is a liar and a cheater. He is not a good person and he will not be good for your life.

If he lies and cheats on his wife like what makes you think he won't do it to you? He will and probably already is! You might just be one of a number he has. Who knows because you don't really know him.

Don't you owe yourself better than this low life?

Don't for a minute think he will divorce his wife for you because he won't. Not a chance in hell.

Your just his booty call! You give him what he wants so he keeps you around.

Pretty one way type of set up here isn't it?

Do you really want to be someone booty call? I think not.

Please go and read some of the threads similar to yours. None of them paint a pretty picture and you'll get no sympathy here.

You know what the correct thing is to do, but the question is are you strong willed enough to do it!

I sincerely hope so. For the sake of a lot of innocent people that will get hurt, as well as for your own.

Good luck!

Yep... he will lie, cheat, and steal from you - just to sleep with you.

Tell him he can call and you will talk again once he has the divorced papers signed and he has HIS OWN PLACE.

98% of the married guys never leave their wives. They're stuck.

You WOULD NEVER be dating him - you'd be the mistress in an affair.

Go date someone you'd be comfortable telling Mom and Dad about.

Stop giving him free sex. You only have to say NO once and he is out of there. No problem.

Maybe you should tell his wife what he is doing! Find out where he lives! Or find out his phone number and leave an annonymous tip.

Joe

QUIT relying on your feelings AND USE LOGIC, COMMON SENSE, AND REALITY!!

Stop talking to him.
Get out of the relationship.
It is up to you to do that because he never will... why should he when he can go home to his wife AND sleep with you.
You knew he was married and continued to talk to him... why not just hang up the phone!?
You are the other woman and it will stay that way... don't you deserve more?