I have known this guy for 15 years or more, I have never dated him and he knows that I want to be with him and he know's my feeling's for him too. Well in 2001 he left and it hurt so bad well in 2010 he came back, and we started talking at the end of sept.2010 we talked everyday and every night he would even write me in the mornings and even when he was at work,he talked me into going to his house and I did, I was there for him when he was going through a divorce.well on march 12 2011 I spent all day with him I baked him a cake for his birthday, and I thought everything was going great he told me that I made him happy.on march 16 all of sudden he stopped talking to me and he won't tell me why, I keep thinking I've done something to him.

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Wonder if he is still hurting about his divorce, and is sparing your feelings? Maybe his feelings are not the same as yours?

If he's just gone through a divorce,he should heal from the break up before getting involved with someone else.

I can only guess that's why he's disappeared,so meanwhile you have get back to living your own life again.