He expects me to site in a garden wise his out on a bike is it normal for me to get bad if I'm waiting around for ages for him

In what country do you live, mena?

Generally, I would say that it is not normal to be told where to sit while one waits for their boyfriend/girlfriend. It seems like he is controlling and I would be very concerned about this situation.

If you don't feel respected or considered in his decisions, why would you stick around?