Me and this guy named Aaron have been dating on and off the past year and he says he loves me, but he really doesn't show it because he's with someone else. He's says he's going to break up with her to be with me because I'm who he wants to be with, but he hasn't done it yet. He still tells me every night he loves me, and he can't get me out of his system. Does he really love me?

Heck no he doesn't love you he is just messing with your mind because you let him.

WAKE UP...
Noooo he doesn't love you. Ask yourself if you really loved someone could you be with someone else at the same time??

Me and this guy named Aaron have been dating on and off the past year and he says he loves me, but he really doesn't show it because he's with someone else. He's says he's going to break up with her to be with me because I'm who he wants to be with, but he hasn't done it yet. He still tells me everynight he loves me, and he can't get me out of his system. Does he really love me?

Princess, How can Aaron really love you if he has another girlfriend? And let's just say he does love you, he's telling her the same thing so that makes him a liar. So now Aaron is a cheater, a liar, and has two (that we know of) girls.

Aaron plays with your emotions so that you hold on to hope. He's not worth the headache.

This is a really tough question because men don't know what they want. Come out and ask him if he really loves you because you don't want to be waiting for him forever. Tell him to make up his mind or your going to move on.good luck!!

this is a really tough question because men don't know what they want. come out and ask him if he really loves you because you don't want to be waiting for him forever. tell him to make up his mind or your gonna move on.good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!

That is absurd. Men do know what they want. He is a player. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. He wants both of them at arms length.

Many men are not like that and if some women would ever wise up and hold there men accountable and only commit themselves to those men that are not players there would be less of this BS and a lot of happier women and men. I've seen to many good guys get screwed over because of women that hold on to some kind of false hope with some jerk to let that go unchalleged. Men do know what they want and by in large are logical creatures so it isn't too hard to figure out if what they say is true or not through there actions.

Me and this guy named Aaron have been dating on and off the past year and he says he loves me, but he really doesn't show it because he's with someone else. He's says he's going to break up with her to be with me because I'm who he wants to be with, but he hasn't done it yet. He still tells me everynight he loves me, and he can't get me out of his system. Does he really love me?

:o I don't want to hurt your feeling or anything but it sounds like he is just telling you that so in case his girl friend breaks up with him he will have you on the side. Girl he is using you he does not really love you. Trust me it has happened to me too don't feel bad

this is a really tough question because men don't know what they want. come out and ask him if he really loves you because you don't want to be waiting for him forever. tell him to make up his mind or your gonna move on.good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!

You are kidding right? Men sure as h.e.l.l. know what they want. And this one wants his cake and to eat it too. He wants to be a player, he wants to have 2 or more girls. I think this one really knows what he wants, and it is not her solely.

My opinion is that if he really loves you then he has to broke up with the other girl so he can be with you if he doesn't then he probably doesn't love you

I agree with think_pink. If he loves you he would be with YOU instead of the OTHER girl...

Men really only want one thing, sex, and lots of it. If he is "doin" you then he is probably "doin" her as well. If he is telling you that he loves you, but he is still with another woman, then he is lying to you just to get you in the sack. I am a guy and I should know.

Men really only want one thing, sex, and lots of it.

That is also absurd. Men have built temples for women. Men have conquered countries for women. Men have given their lives for women. Men have devoted their lives to women. Men want more than sex. If you search this section and just look back over the last 5 or 10 pages you'll see a host of male posters that want more than sex from women.


If he is "doin" you then he is probably "doin" her as well. If he is telling you that he loves you, but he is still with another woman, then he is lying to you just to get you in the sack.

That is true. But this guy is a player. The fact that he has to toy with her emotions makes him a boy. The fact that he can't tell the truth makes him a tool.


I am a guy and I should know.

I'm a man and I do know.

He obviously wants to have his cake and eat it too. As long as you allow him not to choose then he probably won't. Someone who truly loves you would treat you with more respect than that... and if not, would at least not disrespect you by dangling it in your face.

Well lol I was going threw the same thing but my boyfriend understood when I told him I was going 2 leave his for som1 that could respect me and my body and till now we've been good just keep your guards up lol:)

Me and this guy named Aaron have been dating on and off the past year and he says he loves me, but he really doesn't show it because he's with someone else. He's says he's going to break up with her to be with me because I'm who he wants to be with, but he hasn't done it yet. He still tells me everynight he loves me, and he can't get me out of his system. Does he really love me?
Look sweetie don't wait because he's probably saying he has you in his palm of he's hand you pretend that you forgot about him and if he wants to show that he loves you he will so just leave him for a while you know what they say what comes around goes around.

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Jan 23

She obviously wasn't that concerned.

This boy doesn't love you, he's messng with you!! He doesn't want to be with you, but he doesn't want you to be with anyone else, So he's saying I love you and all that to make it sweet. Tell him where to go, and you know what I'm talking about! Also tell his girlfriend what he's doing! She has a right to know, cause he's messng with her too. Good luck!! Xxx

Me and this guy named Aaron have been dating on and off the past year and he says he loves me, but he really doesn't show it because he's with someone else. He's says he's going to break up with her to be with me because I'm who he wants to be with, but he hasn't done it yet. He still tells me everynight he loves me, and he can't get me out of his system. Does he really love me?
Aaron doesn't love you. As long as you go along with his b*llsh*t. He going to play on your emotions and hurt your feelings. So don't mess with him.

Seriously, she doesn't care.

She posted once, never came back and that was 5 months ago.

There is no need to anwer this question.

I can't believe people are still answering thias question??

Hun, he's leading you on... it's very depressing to hear all this, right? but we all go through this, so don't be hard on yourself. Some men just derive pleasure to see reactions of what they say or do and these kind of men are screwed up in their heads... take the clue and stand up for no in your life. Tell him straight you don't like it...

This was the date and time she posted: Jan 23, 2007, 06:49 PM

I know this because it is clearly visible in the upper left hand corner.

If you will move your eyes to the upper right hand corner you will see this.. Posts: 1

That means she only has one post on this board. And, ironically, this is that post.

She doesn't care that Aaron has or has not broke up with the other girl. I know this because she never came back. She was an impulse poster ( I just made that up! ).

Me and this guy named Aaron have been dating on and off the past year and he says he loves me, but he really doesn't show it because he's with someone else. He's says he's going to break up with her to be with me because I'm who he wants to be with, but he hasn't done it yet. He still tells me everynight he loves me, and he can't get me out of his system. Does he really love me?

Well you have to think, you don't know what he is going through everyday with this other chick. For all you know she could be absolutely head over heels for him when all he can think about is you. It may be hard for him to leave her. I say give him a week and let him know you are not going to wait forever. That should put a little fire under his and if it doesn't then sounds like he is diggin the other chick

Through his sorry *** away girl he will never break up with her he's just saying so