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joodle1
Apr 9, 2011, 09:49 PM
My ex boyfriend of 19 months broke up with me a week ago I did constantly send him messages saying I would change and so on and the past two days he has been ignoring me, I don't know what to do I want him back?

amicon
Apr 9, 2011, 10:58 PM
You ignore him back-you can't force anyone to communicate with you.

It seems he's moving on,as should you.

talaniman
Apr 10, 2011, 05:28 AM
You might want him back, but he doesn't want to come, so keep your dignity, and self respect, and leave him alone.

Homegirl 50
Apr 10, 2011, 11:58 AM
Many of us want what we cannot have and often times don't really need.
If he has chosen to ignore you, your best best is to leave him alone.
Desperation is not attractive.

eliza5
Apr 11, 2011, 04:47 PM
Deleted for chat/text and caps.

Homegirl 50
Apr 11, 2011, 08:18 PM
eliza5
Please do not post in text. It is against the rules here. It is alo difficult for a lot of people to read.

joodle1
Apr 13, 2011, 03:32 AM
He did text me and said he doesn't know if he will ever want to get back with me and said he sometimes misses me. He has done this before but I don't know what to do to get him back..

amicon
Apr 13, 2011, 03:47 AM
If this is an ongoing theme,leave it alone now.

Break up/make up/break up doesn't make a healthy relationship.

Time to leave this in the past.

talaniman
Apr 13, 2011, 05:07 AM
He may wonder back for a while, but won't stay long. Is that Okay, being a part-time partner? If it is just wait for him to come back. But you deserve better, and can do better.

Start by doing your own thing, and enjoying your freedom.

joodle1
Apr 14, 2011, 02:18 AM
It sucks I just want him back..

amicon
Apr 14, 2011, 02:50 AM
Keep busy,do things you enjoy and with time you'll heal.

Most breakups suck-we just have to live through them.

Homegirl 50
Apr 14, 2011, 07:53 AM
You don't do anything to get him back. That is desperation.
When someone treats you in such a manner it is a sign you are not important to them, so why waste your time and emotional energy.
Get out and have some fun. There is life beyond this guy.

joodle1
Apr 14, 2011, 05:12 PM
Hmm

joodle1
Apr 26, 2011, 07:37 PM
He messaged me saying he doesn't love me like he used to. Is there anyway I can get him back

martinizing2
Apr 26, 2011, 07:43 PM
It sucks I just want him back..

You like the pain?
He will just keep going and coming back as long as you let him.
You can be the backup for all his flings and affairs.

Or keep some dignity and self respect and don't
Go back or let him back.
It will not get easier or better.

Go now.

talaniman
Apr 26, 2011, 07:56 PM
he messaged me saying he doesn't love me like he used to. is there anyway i can get him back

NO! He doesn't WANT to come back! Chase him and he will run, or fight you.