So I had a thing with a guy that I really liked and things were going fine until all of a sudden he started backing off and not texting me not really interested in hanging out with me and it really hurt me and I told him that but he doesn't care because he's a jerk and it took me a while to relize but I feels like its to late because I think I'm in love with him I can't get him off my mind there's literally a physical pain that I feel in my chest. He pretty much played me and toyed around with my feelings which isn't cool at all but I don't know what to do or how to give my mind a break from thinking about him. Any advice? Thanks :)

You keep busy, that's what you do.

Whenever you start thinking about him,go do something else.

The pain will go away,just don't nurture it.

Make yourself busy.. Some guys are selfish and they will do only what make them feel happy.Don't worry.. It happens in starting but time will heal everything.. Be busy in something you like the most.Make new fnd.Hang out with them.. Chest pain is obvious.. I also got when my girlfriend broke up with me all of a sudden.. But now I am okay and my fnds helped me a lot to make me feel better.. U just carry on with all your work.Move on.. U will get a nice heart which will love you more than that guy.. All the best

You are so young. Boys can be much more childish than girls. Just ignore him, and go out with your friends, and have a good time. Guys hate to be ignored! After he sees you having fun without him, he will either want you back, or move on. In either case, you will have more fun than just sitting around waiting for him to take you back. Good luck.

Thank you for your advice. Ive already spent so much time wasted on texting him everyday asking and trying to figure out what went wrong and how can I try to fix it. Im 19 but I've lived a pretty hard life and experienced a lot of stuff that made me grow up fast. I want him to relize what he missed out on because I'm an amzing girl. I don't unserstand why he chooses not to see that in me. He won't text me because I've annoyed him so much. But I want him to start texting me again so I can ignore him to show him I've moved on and can do much better than him. Any thoughts?