My wife is having pain while intercourse.so she always avoid that.we are doing only oral to satisfy our needs.but I am not getting full satisfaction from that.I need intercourse.what to do

So I can see how concerned you are for your wife's medical condition,

So why she she having pain, what has the doctor said when she has been examined, is this a temp meidcial problem or is it, more long lasting.

And you don't NEED intercourse you want it, so you stop being so selfish, enjoy the love ( OR PERHAPS find the love) with your wife, that would be there if you had a medical condition and could never perhaps get hard.

What would you want your wife to do if you were not able to satisfy her

At least I am expecting blowjob.but she do not like that.I love my wife allot.sometimes she tells me to do intercourse but I always refuse.but only handshake is not enough to satisfy me.she gets satisfied with my leaking her pusssy.she gets good orgasm with that but I am not getting that much satisfaction.still I am happy with her

You are not entitled to, nor should you expect sex from your wife. You seem to have very little concern as to the reason for her pain, rather you seem more concerned with the fact that you 'NEED' more satisfaction than she can currently give you. I would wager that she is also unhappy with the situation, as it is actually her who is in pain!

You should be supporting your wife and trying to find out what her medical problems are and how you can help her with that, rather than complaining that you aren't getting your 'satisfaction'. You strike me as very selfish. You can always pleasure yourself until she feels better, try comforting her instead of thinking of yourself.

You do not get married in order to feel entitled to your wife's body, you don't have any inherent right to have sex with her.

Go to the doctors with her and try to get her some help, I would be more concerned with what is going on to cause her pain rather than trying to find a way round her pain to get your rocks off.