Everything was perfect but one day my boyfriend suddenly broke up with me and said it was because he had stuff going on his life and couldn't date but that he still really loved me and that maybe we could get back together one day.

For a couple months I never saw him or talked to him at all. Until one day he asked me out again but then a couple days later he said he wasn't sure anymore. So then we never talked again for a while. Then we started hanging out a for a while me and him and some of my other friends. But he never mentioned us dating again and I was to scared to because I was scared he now didn't love me anymore and I was already so sad that we weren't even together anymore.

Then finally one day he told my best friend to tell me he didn't love me anymore. She in his class and I actually don't even go to the same school as them and I never hangout with him anymore because well I would probably start crying just seeing him. I already cry almost everyday over him. But its gets worse. I found out he liked someone else now and I found out it was my best friend. She told me hated him cause he broke my heart. But eventually it was so obvious she liked him so finally I asked her and she said she was really sorry but she did like him like a lot. But I know its not even close to how much I love him. Anyway she also told me he asked her out but she said no because she knew it would break my heart even more. That made me feel better that she said no like she cared about me more then him but now it really seems like she is secretly going out with him and trying to keep it from me and I just don't know what do anymore.

Im still in love with him and I can't imagine him being with anyone else especially my best friend. How can I get over him? Im still hoping we will be together again one day but I know its truly never going to happen.

He moved away and you have to move too.There are many person to love but don't go to the same person who has broke your heart,even if he comes also.. Ur best friend accepted him even after knowing that he loved you first.. So she will not leave him and now if he will come back also,ask yourself whether he can be trusted again.. I know it's tough but make some new fnds who will not give any info about your best fnd and him.It will hurt you if u will come to know anything about them.. Make yourself busy.Be in No contact with him.Make new friend and after someday tym will heal everything and everything will be same.. Take care

I'm sorry,but you need to start building your own life now without him and without your so called best friend.

They've both been playing you around,so ,in time I hope you can see this as a lucky escape.

Make new friends;there are decent people out there!

Sorry for your loss, I know it hurts a lot right now, but after a proper grieving, you will come to accept things as they are and move beyond this disappointing, and hurtful time in your life.

Its going to hurt, but if you keep on talking about him with your best friend and letting this paranoid idea that "She's dating him! I know it!" fester in your mind, it is going to make it so much harder to move on.

I'm going through a rough break up of a relationship of 4 years, and my girlfriend is already dating someone new a month later. It sucks, but you need to think positive. Ask yourself... If he doesn't want to be with you, if he's happier this way, why would you want to try to get him back?

Maybe he still have feelings for you

Maybe he still have feelings for you

Thinking things like that will only postpone her moving on process.

I am currently going through a similar problem. My boyfriend and I dated for three and a half years. Things had been extremely rocky for about the last year, then about a month ago I told him I wanted to break up and he begged for me back and I accepted. About a week later of still being miserable, the same event occurred. Then after seeing him try so hard my feelings grew back and I fell more in love with him than ever. About a week ago, we broke up and he blocked my number and didn't talk to me. After three days of showing up just to talk to him, begging for him back, and basically doing anything to get him back he agreed we could start hanging out and date again in the near future. This morning I asked him to come to Easter dinner, he refused because he wanted to just eat at his house, so I got mad and hung up. He called me two seconds later swearing at me and telling me never to talk to him again.

The point of me telling this story is that I know how you feel. But after this second time breaking up, it's kind of hard for me to even want to think about being with him... think about it-you are doing what I did-You are feeding into what he wants, you are holding on, and you are hurting. I know how hard it is but the best way to get over it is so simply start slow. Start doing something you like again. Get a haircut or a tattoo. Start taking a dance class or a cooking class. Do something you love again. Because the problem that I struggled with the most is I lost my identity as myself-I only saw myself as his girlfriend. Learn to be yourself again. Do something you love. But mostly, don't expect it to be easy right now. Don't force yourself to get over him. Just start learning to live your life without him. As long as you're doing something that makes you happy, you will be moving in the right direction. Baby steps. That's where Im at right now too..

We all go through this honey,
I PROMISE, one day, you're going to look back at this, and him, and LAUGH. And you'll be in a man's arms that wouldn't hurt you like that and is just for you.
I've been through the same thing, and now I see these guys I cried about and think "OH thank god that ended."
Only time will heal you.
Just keep busy and active, take care of yourself, it will help take your mind off him and ease the pain. But you will be over it in no time. Especially if you run into him one day, looking all cute.. and smile with decency and say HEY, HOW ARE YOU! And then move on. It will kill him. Muahaha
Nothing will torture a tool like that more than ignoring it and moving on and being happy. They want you to cry and be miserable. Don't give in to that.