WRECKED
Apr 4, 2011, 09:33 PM
I have tried my best to start my own business, he just jinx`s it all the time. I was employed, doing real estates for a few years, he persuaded me to leave the company due to it being an unsafe venue. Then I was offered a job at a women`s gym as a fitness co-ordinator, there he got to my employer and made a story that I wasn`t a good mother and spent no time with my kids, my working hours were from 8am-12:45am. My daily schedule was drop the kids at school half7 and start fetching from 1pm. As you can see the kids were not around for me to spend time with them and once they got home, I was with them till they went to bed. I was fired due to his pretty picture. Now I'm at home not employed, he has his own business, I do not know how much he quotes, makes, invoices and collects from his customers. If I have to ask him what do you do with all the money you make? because naturally, if you earning well enough you wouldn't have any outstanding accounts. He always says to me `DON`T GET INTO MY BUSINESS!! ` He says do my books but how can I if he just only gives me petrol slips and don't tell me how much wages he pays, how can you do books with petrol slips only?? He is afraid of me being financially independent. I want to apply in the traffic department, I have completed my matric last year but now need money to clear my name{licence owing against my name for his car and it goes higher and higher each day} so that I can go get my learners and licience. He doesn't like the idea of me becoming something, he prefers to praise other men`s wives instead of his own... I have been taking his manipulation for almost 14years... aS SOON AS IM FINANCIALLY STABLE.. One silly day... im going to be AWOL.