lis_help
Apr 1, 2011, 10:13 PM
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 4months. We have been having problems with both sides of our family since the day go. Really only because we have different religions which really sucks because my mum and dad call his house all hrs of the day and night. It puts a lot of stress onto our life and is now the reason my befriend broke up with me.
I told him I want to convert and we can get married and live our own life without all the stress that comes along with it.. but he is worried that my parents well cause drama in the future. I understand where he is coming along saying all of this but I'm so hurt its not funny all the stress and pain I'm going through at the moment won't stop because I'm not with him.
I love him more then my parents could ever think and I love him more then my own family I would give my life for him but their comes a stage when nothing I do, seems to be working the only people who can change his mind are his parents but I can't even talk to them because they hate me cause of everything my parents have made me do in the past like breaking up with him, my parents treating him and his family. Seriously my parents are out of control at the moment and nothing I do will fix anything..
I was talking to my boyfriend or ex I guess you can say and we we are joking and laughing and it was so nice I really fall in love with him all over again. But then my mum bangs on my door I don't answer and she runs down stairs yelling that him that it I'm ringing his parents.. its 1am what normal person would do something so silly and again he gives me distance and won't talk to me because of something so silly my parents done..
I love him and I want to become a part of life and family but I'm just not sure how I'm meant to do something like this when his being so scared and worried.. any advice would be great by the way he's Muslim and I'm Catholic. He's 23 I'm 22 and I'm currently looking at getting an apartment cause I can't take this anymore..
I told him I want to convert and we can get married and live our own life without all the stress that comes along with it.. but he is worried that my parents well cause drama in the future. I understand where he is coming along saying all of this but I'm so hurt its not funny all the stress and pain I'm going through at the moment won't stop because I'm not with him.
I love him more then my parents could ever think and I love him more then my own family I would give my life for him but their comes a stage when nothing I do, seems to be working the only people who can change his mind are his parents but I can't even talk to them because they hate me cause of everything my parents have made me do in the past like breaking up with him, my parents treating him and his family. Seriously my parents are out of control at the moment and nothing I do will fix anything..
I was talking to my boyfriend or ex I guess you can say and we we are joking and laughing and it was so nice I really fall in love with him all over again. But then my mum bangs on my door I don't answer and she runs down stairs yelling that him that it I'm ringing his parents.. its 1am what normal person would do something so silly and again he gives me distance and won't talk to me because of something so silly my parents done..
I love him and I want to become a part of life and family but I'm just not sure how I'm meant to do something like this when his being so scared and worried.. any advice would be great by the way he's Muslim and I'm Catholic. He's 23 I'm 22 and I'm currently looking at getting an apartment cause I can't take this anymore..